Hello Honeyy ,
Soo, I am in a relationship since 5 months and I thought about a lot of stuff, so now I want to talk to you about relationships. And couples. And maybe sex too. ^-^
Less relationship goals, more self goals.
Quote: When you first get into a relationship it is, i guess, pretty normal for the couple to be together a lot. The problem for me was, I got lost in him. Kind of. I stopped creating, reading, listening to music. I was either thinking about him or typing him or we were fighting and i was crying. It was allllll about him and us. And after a while you need to get back on track i guess.
My generation . . . it seems to be all about sex. What base you can get to, loosing your virginity, etc. Well I just want to go to Water World on dates and dance in the middle of the street. I’m old fashioned like that.
Quote: True. True, true, true. I guess a relationship should be the perfect combination of being super romantic and cute and then again perverted as fuck. And always just be there for each other. Sex isn’t everything and I guess that’s something I need to repeat from time to time because not everyone realizes that.
A relationship with no gender roles. We both hustle, we both cook, we both pay, we both spoil each other.
Quote: IMPORTANT! For me as a feminist this is the perfect relationship.
Just be a team. In my case for example he cooks way better than me so he does the cooking and I do the stuff I am better at than him. Or you can decide who cooks when. For example you cook on monday and your boyfriend/ girlfriend on tuesday. Find that balance and how it is easier for both of you.
If he still sees the beauty in you and still falls more on love with you after seeing you weird facial expressions, your unusual laugh, your constant complaining, your ugly days, your pig out days, the way you toss and turn in your sleep, your stupid jokes, the way you ask questions about things you should already know the answers to but he answers them anyways, your obsession with strange things, your random sounds, and your immaturity. Then you already know this is the boy.
“Even after the way you treated me, I still have hope that things can work out in the future”
Quote: That’s a problem anddd.. you probably shouldn’t ignore that. Being in a relationship is supposed to feel light and happy and it doesn’t matter in what situation you are, if you are unhappy, you have to do something. Talk to your partner and if you need to, break up. It is stupid to stay in a relationship that makes you unhappy.
Breaking up: Breaking up is hard, but if you do it for a good reason it’s ok. Whether you are unhappy or you don’t love that person anymore or you grew apart. Your partner deserves to be with someone who wants to be with him/ her. You can do it sweetie, stay strong xx
If someone just broke up with you i am so sorry, and please feel hugged. Now it is time for you to do whatever makes you feel better. Cry. Eat your favorite food. Watch a movie. But don’t stick to that. Give yourself a time limit and get fully into your sadness. Cry, watch sad movies, stay in your pajamas all day. But when this time limit is over [not more than a week], you need to get up and do something. Otherwise you will lie in bed for months.
I am talking way too much about breaking up hahah. If you want I can do a separate post about that.
It all comes down to the person you look for in a crowded room.
Love is great, xox