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Hey <3

I am currently in Greece which means I am only eating, sleeping, reading and swimming [heaveeen hahah] and since I am not doing anything for real my mind started working and I got creative again and I really feel like doing something. 

I think sometimes you need to get a little bored so you get new ideas. So if you feel like you have kind of a little down phase currently just turn off your phone and computer, stop forcing yourself and go for a walk. Because as soon as you have nothing to do your mind tries to get busy. Sometimes it starts immediately and sometimes only after a couple days, weeks or months even. Just be patient. <3

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Hello Honey ,

from my post “What to do when you are bored and lonely” you maybe heard a little that I am bored and lonely. Surprise! So yesterday I decided to go to the “Rheinkirmes” [a fair/ kermis]. It was a lot of fun and I definitely got inspired to do stuff like that more often and to step out of my comfort zone. Because the 80 meters high chairoplane/ swing ride was the best thing I’ve ever done!

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body images // love yourself

Hourglass Figure, Diamond-, Apple-, Oval-, Pear-, Triangle Shape. Ectomorphs, Endomorphs, Mesomorphs . . .

There are curvy girls, girls with a thigh gap,  girls with big boobs, small boobs, boys with some belly, boys with a sixpack, skinny boys, short boys, tall boys.

The internet is full of fatspo, thinspo and fitspo post. There are people #proana and people against it. And I could continue the list of body images because there are million of them. And I am not even exhaturating because these people are all unique and everyone has a different body

and i know it is so hard to love yourself. But it’s so worth it. People are so focused on their body and how they look, they forget everything else. Your body is so much more. It is there so you can use it! So the beautiful soul of yours can move on this planet. You are supposed to dance, to laugh, to kiss, to eat, to create.

I am not telling you to eat all the burgers you can get. I tell you to be healthy and not die at 20 because of over- or undereating. I tell you to be nice to your body and if you need that jar of ice cream EAT IT! Enjoy it!

AND. Stop blaming your body for everything. Don’t tell yourself “Oh I am fat. He won’t like me.” “Or he doesn’t like me because I am ugly.” NO! Don’t tell yourself everything gets better as soon as you have the “perfect body”. You are perfect right now. Don’t stop yourself from things you want to do just because you think you are too fat because you are never too fat to be happy.

Embrace your body and all your pimples, stretch marks and scars. They show you have lived.

I get so sad telling beautiful people that they are not fat and not ugly. And even sadder when they don’t believe me!

i love you <3

what to do when you feel bored and lonely

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well.. hello honey, how are you doing ? i hope good <3

so summer holidays finally started for me! Annnd.. i am dying of boredom and since i have no friends.. i don’t know what to do. So here are my ideas and plans for this summer. I hope maybe I can help someone in a  similiar situation.

  • Do stuff you never had time for.  [Since studying and preaparing for school takes a lot of time I often don’t have the inspiration and time to read or draw. So in the holidays I focus on that.]
  • Do something you always wanted to do but never did. [!!!]
  • Go to Museums and Art Exhibitions
  • REAAAAAD
  • and listen to music
  • Go on roadtrips [even if it’s just by train to a little city near yours]
  • find Internet Friends  [I don’t do that tbh but if you are alone and need someone to spend some time with an internet friend is great for that. Just text that guy/ girl who you always thought was super cool!]
  • Cafés [search for new ones. Of course you like the café you always go but something new can be also nice, right ? :))) Just sit down, look at the people, maybe read a book or take your notebook with you]
  • Cinemaaaaaa!  [Again. Look for something new. For example in my city there are cinemas in the basement of cafés and stuff. Also these cinemas often show different movies than regular cinemas do. So maybe find a place where you can watch old films . . . ?] // or watch something at home but cinemas are good for when you want to get out of the house.
  • go swimming [I personally don’t like going to outdoor swimming pools [like the public ones] because .. i don’t know.. it’s weird. So I just looked up some swimming lakes. These are super cute and I prefer them a lil’ over swimming pools.]
  • Theme  and amusement parks ! [I can’t go there alone. I don’t even know why but I am scared hahah. [also they are effing expensive.] But if you like rollercoasters and all that stuff  these parks are perfect for you.]

these are little things literally everyone can do [on a pretty small budget]. If you are like 20 y/o or more, there are, of course, a lot more possibilities.

also if you are bored and you wanna talk, my contact details are in the right corner 

i loooooove you!

r e l a t i o n s h i p s //

Hello Honeyy ,

Soo, I am in a relationship since  5 months and I thought about a lot of stuff, so now I want to talk to you about relationships. And couples. And maybe sex too. ^-^

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Less relationship goals, more self goals.

Quote: When you first get into a relationship it is, i guess, pretty normal for the couple to be together a lot. The problem for me was, I got lost in him. Kind of. I stopped creating, reading, listening to music. I was either thinking about him or typing him or we were fighting and i was crying. It was allllll about him and us. And after a while you need to get back on track i guess.

My generation . . . it seems to be all about sex. What base you can get to, loosing your virginity, etc. Well I just want to go to Water World on dates and dance in the middle of the street. I’m old fashioned like that.

Quote: True. True, true, true. I guess a relationship should be the perfect combination of being super romantic and cute and then again perverted as fuck. And always just be there for each other. Sex isn’t everything and I guess that’s something I need to repeat from time to time because not everyone realizes that.

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A relationship with no gender roles. We both hustle, we both cook, we both pay, we both spoil each other.

Quote: IMPORTANT! For me as a feminist this is the perfect relationship.

Just be a team. In my case for example he cooks way better than me so he does the cooking and I do the stuff I am better at than him. Or you can decide who cooks when. For example you cook on monday and your boyfriend/ girlfriend on tuesday. Find that balance and how it is easier for both of you.

If he still sees the beauty in you and still falls more on love with you after seeing you weird facial expressions, your unusual laugh, your constant complaining, your ugly days, your pig out days, the way you toss and turn in your sleep, your stupid jokes, the way you ask questions about things you should already know the answers to but he answers them anyways, your obsession with strange things, your random sounds, and your immaturity. Then you already know this is the boy.

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“Even after the way you treated me, I still have hope that things can work out in the future”

Quote: That’s a problem anddd.. you probably shouldn’t ignore that. Being in a relationship is supposed to feel light and happy and it doesn’t matter in what situation you are, if you are unhappy, you have to do something. Talk to your partner and if you need to, break up. It is stupid to stay in a relationship that makes you unhappy.

Breaking up: Breaking up is hard, but if you do it for a good reason it’s ok. Whether you are unhappy or you don’t love that person anymore or you grew apart. Your partner deserves to be with someone who wants to be with him/ her. You can do it sweetie, stay strong xx

If someone just broke up with you i am so sorry, and please feel hugged. Now it is time for you to do whatever makes you feel better. Cry. Eat your favorite food. Watch a movie. But don’t stick to that. Give yourself a time limit  and get fully into your sadness. Cry, watch sad movies, stay in your pajamas all day. But when this time limit is over [not more than a week], you need to get up and do something. Otherwise you will lie in bed for months.

I am talking way too much about breaking up hahah. If you want I can do a separate post about that.

It all comes down to the person you look for in a crowded room.

Love is great, xox

BE SO BUSY LOVING YOUR LIFE THAT YOU HAVE NO TIME FOR HATE, REGRET OR FEAR.

Healthy Lifestyle // Losing weight? // Selflove

Hey Honey 🖤

There have been a couple changes in my life which I’d like to share with you because they have made me so much happier and I really recommend others doing that too.

I really love food. I do. There were times i would eat constantly. non. stop. But when I came back from Kyiv I didn’t feel as good with myself. I gained a little bit weight [which actually looked pretty cute] and ate only unhealthy stuff. My Mom told me I looked very pale and she worried alot. So I decided to make a change. Not only I wanted to loose a little bit of weight but also I wanted to get more active and eat healthier. So I stopped eating sugar, white bread and stuff like that and started doing Yoga and Pilates.

And now I’m gonna tell you something.

I LOVE YOGA.

I love it!! After doing it for the first time my mood was over the top, i felt great and already much better in my body.

The downside to it was that I made these changes pretty fast and after a week of only eating healthy food and doing sport I was so tired. I literally couldn’t do anything. So I ate a little bit more and from times to times something unhealthy. After the second week of “dieting”/ eating healthy my body got used to it and I started seeing the results. I went to sleep at like 10 PM and waked up at 6/ 6.30 AM without an alarm! I am not that tired anymore and feel alot better since I am more outside, eat healthier and do Yoga.

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So I did this to feel better but also to loose weight. It’s kind of weird for me to tell you this because I tell you all the time You should love yourself and stuff and now I am doing the opposite and loose weight? Yeah.. I know. That sounds stupid. BUT. I always loved my body. I have Stretch marks and curves and no thigh gap. I am a normal human being and I loveeee it. So before I started changing my body I made sure I loved myself you know?

At my opinion you should love yourself and your body always, no matter how it looks. There are more important things than what size you wear or whatever. You need your body to create art, to live, to sing, to breathe, to be happy. Your body is there so you can do stuff.

But still, if you need to lose weight first before you love yourself it’s fine ❤ You do you and you decide.

If you are on a diet, or do sport to lose weight. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Even though you try to change do it with, surprise, selflove. The process is long and sometimes hard. Treat yourself if you need it and be happy ❤

Sometimes self care is exercise and eating right. Sometimes it’s spending time with loved ones or taking a nap. And sometimes it’s watching an entire season of television in one weekend while you lounge around in your pajamas. Whatever soothes your soul.

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